The comments from the public following that article run the gambit of good advice to bad advice, but one of the latest comments (which continue to be written by men and women who are just stumbling upon his post) showed again how fragile a man’s psyche is when the person he loves doesn’t realize the damage that can be done by refusing sex (I took the liberty of fixing some typos): As someone who didn’t have sex during the pregnancy, and still haven’t almost a year since the birth of our son now.I would say the best thing for a neglected husband to do is either, get a mistress, get a divorce or put it to your wife plainly that you need attention as you can’t go on like this.
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For men, there’s sometimes only a pencil thin line separating love and sex.
Sex is both a biological need and a way for us to express our love.
If we don’t have sex with our lives, the love we feel starts to erode.
This is a common discussion point in the ‘sphere, one I’ve even written about and one beaten to death if you open your eyes.
M3 did a most powerful post on this last year with his Confessions of a Reformed Incel (involuntary celibacy .
For most men this is what it boils down to from his post: His post breaks this down to the point that the lack of this basic need led him to be suicidal.
He’s a single guy, but the need for affection and, yes, sex is something that is born in our very DNA. we need this bond, especially with someone who we love, to feel like a man.
Sometimes men can deal with the scraps they’re given, but even if they do, resentment can build and eat away like a cancer.
If you check out MMSL Forums, they are filled with men and women in various stages of improving their sex life.